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Wednesday, April 07, 2004

of Sex in The City... and being Seksis

I've been totally hook to the American TV series "Sex in The City" for these few weeks. I know, it's been out for quite sometime now, but only recently do I have the time to watch the DVD. After watching the complete 3 seasons, I have concluded that it has a lot of things I can learn from those 3 women characters. The message being conveyed is universal. It kept me thinking about the whole cruising thing.. either gay or straight. It opened my eye to a few things which I never thought before. As I put myself into Carrie's shoe and see my relationship with "Mr.Big". Now I know the reason why he left me and married the other girl. Am I too complicated ? Is he a straight acting gay or a gay straght acting ? Those I are the things I can relate to whatever happened to my life. Overall it's very entertaining.. and educational the very least.

Monday, April 05, 2004

wow my 1st post

TA-DAAAAA
peeky here
i know some of u all know me on the chat and im not that famous and stuff but this is my 1st post
heres a little things in live that i would like to share with everyone ... or i think its more like a frustration in life ya?
im in PJ area .... and im always in the sunway reagen cause im studying around there(cant tell u which college but if u happen to bump to me ... ur lucky... or better ... on the same college) well im always lingering in sunway area and i notice something ... lots of chubbies around ... i do mean lots and cute ones too ehhehehe
well heres the frustration part...
u get to see em but u cant touch em ... hate that ... adn u go to chat hoping that u'll meet ONE of them but u cant ... u get fresh faces instead(not to say its bad but ... i wanna meet em) plus ... i dont have a a working gaydar... that sucks even more
so tell me if ur one of the chubbies that always lingers around sunway pyramid area heheh email me and stuff im always near by or better still we get to have lunch and more yeah ?

hugs y'all
peeky

Thursday, April 01, 2004

Bitching on April Fool's day

I am exhausted. I've been exhausted for the past 2-3 months. The workload. The stress. The problems. A sign that my monthly visits to the local masseur should be increased. I badly need one right now. And that's not April Fool.

Just got back from my hometown last weekend for a wedding. Not mine, mind you. Not yet, anyway. But will be, hopefully. Had a interesting and wonderful time, not to mention exhausting. Didn't meet anyone as a friend I planned to meet couldn't make it. But had some visitors from KL who decided to spend their weekend there instead of clubbing at Bleu. I'd say they had a more interesting time with a trip to the local masseur, a nite out by the seaside cafe, and lots of DVDs. Berudu is starting his own f.r.i.e.n.d.s collection and bought season 1, 2 and 3 altogether, including some 'berangan' movies like Legally Blonde 1 & 2 and others. Shook bought some 'berangan' movies also which I can't remember the titles. Harry bought LOTR: Fellowship of the Ring extended version. Somehow the people at my hometown look 'better' in every sense, especially the chubs. They look 'neat', clean-cut and not messy, and judging from the appearance, they could very well smell nice. Not that I went over and smelt them... But I could probably imagine the smell of Dolce & Gabbana on fat, and it's not that bad. Go figure! Perhaps the election result has got something to do with it.

Went to have dinner last nite with Eric and Teddy. The original plan was for us to go to the Baskin-Robbins outlet at Ampang Point, buy 1 pint of ice-cream each and have a steamboat dinner at Desa Pandan. But it was raining cats and dogs last evening, or rather it was rather raining angry hippos and horny bears. So the road was jammed, and I got to Desa Pandan around 8. Asked Teddy to buy for me a pint of Peanut Butter n' Chocolate and waited for them at Desa Pandan. The steamboat restaurant was no longer there, a mamak restaurant instead. Had a Japanese set dinner with them, bitched about life, and ate the ice-cream. Yum!! Gotta do this again. Went back to Ampang Point and had a late drink at the mamak stall in front of Ampang Puteri Hospital. Reza and RH joined later for a while. And suddenly I'm like the slimmest guy around. Heh!

Am autorepeating this playlist, more on the simple piano-based songs. They sound better the more I play, especially in the car. Btw, I'm looking for a cheap branded second-hand 4-channel car amplifier, preferably the established brands like Infinity, JBL or Rockford Fosgate. Yeah, like duhh!! Found out on e-bay that it's dirt cheap in the States but about 1000x more in Malaysia. Globalization hasn't reached here yet, I suppose?

Hasn't checked out Zouk KL yet. How's the scene? Any chubbies there?

Playlist:
Clay Aiken - Open Arms (couldn't beat Mariah, of course, but sounds 'achievable' tho not by me)
Ruben Stoddart - Sorry 2004 (chill out easy listening)
Kara - Beri Aku Waktu
Titi DJ & Agnes Monica - Hanya Cinta Yang Bisa(still listening to this)
Dygta ft Andina - Tak Mungkin Ku Melepasmu(2-3 yr old song, but still nice)
Lingua - Bila Ku Ingat (2-3 yr old song, but still nice)
Reza - Cintakan Membawamu Kembali (original artist by Dewa, but heard another version on Red104.9 after midnite the other day by Siti Nurhaliza and it blew all versions!!! Apparently that's during her TV concert in Indonesia. Still looking for her version tho.)
Simply Red - You Make Me Feel Brand New
Warren G ft KRS-1 & Lil Ai - Lets Go (the girls sounds cute)
Kanye West - Through The Wire
Twista ft Jamie Foxx & Kanye West - Slow Jamz
Deep Dish vs Everything But The Girl - Future of the Future
Mandalay - Beautiful (7" Canny Mix from Cafe Del Mar vol 6, better than Sarah Brightman's)

Encounters? We'll see soon.... and it won't be April Fool.

Sunday, March 28, 2004

Priceless... Memories


Just something that might get you interested with the erection :) Oppp.. election

Friday, February 13, 2004

Virtual Beating - (Adapted from Fridae.com)

Have you ever been a victim of online gay bashing? As the Net becomes the new hunting ground for gay bashers, Here are some tips on defending yourself in the virtual world.

Many might be shocked by the idea that gay bashings still happen – but the truth is thousands of documented cases happen each year. But that’s only the physical bashing. The reality is, many bashers have chosen to take their crusades to a safer, more anonymous venue. The Internet, with its much debated virtues, ills, and undoubted freedom, is their new hunting ground. What could be more convenient, after all? You can even pop a few beers while you satisfy your hunger to assault some ‘sick’ queen.

Welcome new millennium. Hello, old hates.

True, the assault from online bashers isn’t likely to cause death or disfigurement. But it is just as much a violation as the first, if not possibly more dangerous. The possibilities and reach of the Net allows a basher to pretty much spew his acid wherever he chooses, with much greater impunity. He can let his inhumanity run free, until it bubbles to the surface, that much more concentrated. He can have the luxury of being several places at once, and even luring potential victims into dangerous situations, where they can be assaulted in their own homes, or in a ground of the basher’s choosing.

So what can one do about it? Much as in the real world, you fight back, with whatever you can. For the gay man in the Internet world, wit is probably the best weapon.

Many people believe that bashers are closet cases who cannot accept their own homosexuality, and thus try to push it away by attacking other gay people. With the relative anonymity that chatrooms and online communities provide, some feel that they intimidate and abuse with impunity. I remember another time someone came into a chatroom claiming to be a police officer, and exercise his ego by scaring off the people there. He beat a hasty retreat when the moderators told him that impersonating a policeman was a crime, and that his IP address was being noted down for the authorities. Two can play at the game of bluff, but it always pays to know your rights.

Another motivation bashers have, is vengeance. Maybe he was slighted by a gay classmate (I say he, because statistically, almost all bashers are men - women tend to be much more sensible.), or somehow "lost" to a gay competitor. For some, the idea that a strong, masculine MAN like him could be in any way inferior to a "limp-wristed freak" was intolerable. A friend told me about one incidence, when a would-be basher had his ego seriously bruised when his nasty messages on a yahoogroup elicited hordes of devastatingly witty replies. Unable to frame a suitable rejoinder, he retreated with his tail between his legs. But after a few days of nursing his humiliation, he thought to avenge himself by setting up an eyeball with one of the members of the group and physically "assert his superiority". To his regret and greater humiliation, the victim-to-be turned out to be a tae-kwon-do instructor. Some days, it just doesn't pay to be straight and stupid.

A third kind of basher is the (shudder) religious fundamentalist sort. There is no hope of reaching through the miasma of their religious fervour, and they're not even any fun to bait and toy with. Moderators should just ban their IPs or kick them from the group.

Ultimately, bashers are sad, insecure people who try to prove their manhood and machismo by trying to exert power over others. Don’t let them. Here are a few ways to defend yourself:

1. Take away their tools. Log IP addresses, note down emails addresses, forward hate email or forum postings to your ISP (Internet Service Provider) or to the basher’s ISP. Make sure the person knows that you’ve got his info and have taken steps to disseminate that info. Make sure he knows you’re covered, and that if something happens to you, it’ll be traced back to him easily. If you find a gay bashing site online, report it to site’s host, and make sure others see and hear of the site. With enough pressure, it’ll be taken down before it encourages some young fool about his “superiority”.

2. Don’t give them what they want. Don’t show fear, don’t react with hostility, don’t pander to their needs. Why give them any satisfaction? For some bashers, it only encourages them, because they feel that they’re succeeding in getting under your skin.

3. Don’t take risks. Just as you shouldn’t walk down a dark alley at night, sniffing a bouquet of flowers while yodelling “Be A Woman”, don’t meet anyone from the net who seems suspicious. Try to check on the person who’s inviting you to eyeball - talk to the person on the phone, or check his address isn’t some abandoned building somewhere. Write down any details you can get on the other person, and keep the info somewhere easy to find. Course, for those of us who like rougher trade, well, the line is hard to distinguish sometimes, so be sure to pack your Taser in your purse or buy one of those cellphones with cameras or recorders. Aside from obvious advantages, you can take a snap of anyone who tries to assault you. (For technologically challenged: a Taser is a hand-held remote stun system.)

4. The ignore function is your friend. If someone is getting tiresome, just tune them out. There is little point to talking to an empty room, and ideally, the basher will go away. Otherwise, see Number 1 above.

5. Take them seriously. One disadvantage of being online is that bashers become disassociated from you - you can’t see them or hear them. More often than not, you regard them as a nuisance rather than a threat. But they ARE threats, if not to you, then potentially to some sister in the community. Don’t give them the chance to try again with someone else, perhaps with better success.

Online bashing doesn’t cause real pain, true. But it potentially can cause real harm. Just as you wouldn’t allow anyone to physically attack you, don’t let them emotionally or verbally violate you either. The Internet is probably the one place where we can all stand proud as equals with the rest of the world. Let no one take that from us.

Original Text by:
Glenn Chua

Wednesday, January 21, 2004

Title change....

After much thought, and in view with the changing times, we are experimenting with a new name title change to our blog column.

"The Chubby Soup for the Seeking Soul"

Thus, we hope that more blog writers will come forth and write, not only about encounters but also about the expanding world of Malaysian chubs & chasers as we had originally intended this blog to be.

We value your comments and hope that this change will bring a positive turnaround.
If you have the skills... If you have the passion.. If you want to be a blog writer...

write an e-mail to: mychub@time.net.my
Introduce yourself to us...

We will reply with a confirmation invitation to the MyChub blog writers pool.

Tuesday, January 13, 2004

Alkisahnya...

Di zaman dahulu kala ada sorang chub bernama Samwise, dia takut buka mata tapi dia tak buta, dia suka kena pimpin.
Samwise kena pimpin dengan sorang ni dekat 7 tahun, nama dia Qui-Gonn Jinn, kalau Qui-Gonn nak lepaskan tangan dia nanti dia tarik balik tangan Qui-Gonn. Samwise takut jalan sorang2 dalam gelap, pesal dia taknak bukak mata, dia tak percaya suasana sebenarnya terang. Ada sekali tu Samwise jumpa sorang ni, nama dia Iori, Iori ni pimpin dia sekejap, dan tanya "Kenapa u tutup mata? Bukak la mata tu so boleh kita jalan sama2?". Samwise jawap "I tak nampak la, bukan i tutup mata. I nak org pimpin." Iori jawap "U nampak la, cuba bukak mata tu, jom jalan sama2. Tengah terang ni ha. Then kita boleh sama2 pergi mana2". Samwise jawap lagi "I tak nampakla! U taknak pimpin i sudah!". Dia suruh Iori pergi. So Iori pun pergi.

Si Samwise ni jalan2 teraba2 dlm terang, kekadang terjumpa tangan orang, ada yang tepis, ada yang sambut. Yang sambut tu pimpin tangan dia kejap. Samwise tu seronok kena pimpin, seronok kena tarik ke sana sini. "Apa guna buka mata kalau dah ada orang pimpin?" Mungkin tu yg dia pikirkan. Ada orang yang rimas asik tolong pimpin dia aja. Ada yang nak pujuk dia suruh dia bukak mata dan tengok keadaan sekeliling yang sebenarnya cantik, tapi dia halau. So Samwise pun meraba2 dalam terang lagi dan lagi dan lagi, minta orang pimpin tangan dia, sapa2 yg lalu depan dia yang sanggup pimpin dia pun dia tak kisah, asalkan orang tu sanggup pimpin. Tak kira orang tu nak bawak ke mana, asalkan kena pimpin. Takda arah tujuan, padahal Samwise boleh buka mata tengok sapa yang pimpin dia dan arah mana yang nak dituju dan pilih dia nak pergi tempat tu ke tak. Samwise tengok dengan tangan dia aja. Dia tak pernah kenal sapa Qui-Gonn, sapa Iori. Dia tau Iori pernah bercakap dgn dia, dia tau Iori pernah pimpin dia, tapi dia taktau camana rupa Iori tu. Semua tu tak penting, dia nak kena pimpin aja, dan sebagai balasan, dia akan pegang tangan org tu dan takkan lepaskan. Sekarang dia kena pimpin dengan orang baru dalam 5 bulan, orang tu pun nak lepaskan tangan, atas sebab2 yang tak diketahui.

Motif? Moral?

Anyway, playlist minggu ni:
Cokelat - Jauh
Dygta ft Andina - Tak Mungkin Kumelepasmu
Lingua - Bila Kuingat
Titi DJ ft Agnes Monica - Hanya Cinta Yang Bisa
Andien - Tentang Aku
Andien - Menjelma
Reza - Cintakan Membuatmu Kembali
ADA Band - Manja
Peter Pan - Sahabat
Anita Sarawak - Perasaan
Azalea - Gemawan
Gerhana Skacinta - Antara Anyir Dan Jakarta

Monday, January 12, 2004

New MyChub Encounter Blog Feature !

Dear MyChub blog readers,

We have added a nifty commenting feature on the articles written in MyChub blogs so that you can also participate / join in the discussion !

Just click at the [comment] link, to express ur ideas about each blog post.

Remember! mychub blog is not just for telling ppl how great you are when meeting chubs or how good you are at flirting ! It is also a place to dicuss about the current issues about the chub & chaser community

Always be nice and respect others ! Lets us encourage rather than discourage !
Be positive and always look at the brighter side of life.

Coz gay in the dictionary means happy & joyfull, not sex occay!

Huggz

Wednesday, January 07, 2004

New Year

Went to Bukit Bintang around 4pm, to avoid the massive traffic jam I'd expect since they're closing some roads for the celebration. Called some that I know and got the expected answer "Errr... tak taulah lepak mana, tanya ". So I hanged out with BaronCaffeine, ate the famous Nasi Ayam Hailam, and went all over Bukit Bintang to look for budget hotel but couldn't find any (we're planning to go clubbing until morning, and concluded that we won't have the energy to drive back home).

Went to bleu. Less than 30 ppl before countdown (I think!). Apparently they all went to see the fireworks at KLCC before coming in. Then suddenly the place was packed. Cover charge was RM20 before 11pm, and RM25 afterwards. Last year I went to Nouvo to see Jakatta the DJ, cover charge was RM60 but worth every cent as he played really really nice stuff (American Dream, Ever So Lonely and others I dont know).

The mood at bleu was the same, except that I think everyone smiled more. The song playlist was the same, I expected more since it's New Year and probably the DJ would want to bring some changes. Oh well... one can only hope... No new chubs in sight, except for one from Belgium, I think. Contrary to popular belief, he DID NOT smell like chocolate.

Current playlist:
1. Missy Elliot - Pass That Dutch
2. Timbaland - Indian Flute
3. Baby Bash - Suga Suga
4. Mandalay - Beautiful
5. Titi DJ ft Agnes Monica - Hanya Cinta Yang Bisa
6. Simply Red - You Make Me Feel Brand New
7. Josh Groban - You're Still You
8. Tori Amos - Love Song

Thursday, January 01, 2004

Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year

Finally, MyChub has gone through another eventful year! We never thought that it would come this far. Without the help and support of you - our patrons, would would never thought that we would have done it either.

MyChub's new year resolution this year is to make our ever expanding services continues to cater to the chub & chasers throughout malaysia and beyond. And we shall continue to make ground breaking innovations / pioneering advancement to make your life better.

To all our beloved readers, have a merry little christmas and a joyous New Year!
May you all be blessed with happiness and prosperity !
Lets us give full support to this little chub club that dared to dream and make it happen!
Huggss

Friday, December 26, 2003

A MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!

Hi...Just a short note to say to all who celebrate Christmas I hope you had a great christmas celebration. Also to everybody out there, I hope you have a good and great new year and may all your dreams and wishes come true!

Friday, November 28, 2003

Some people tries to be cute.. but then, some people are born cute !!!


Beberapa hari sebelum Raya, moks telah dijemput ke rumah seorang kawan lama. Bukan apa, saja nak menziarah sebelum dia balik ke kampung. Moks pon dah lama tak pergi rumah dia.. dah dekat 2 tahun dah.

Actually, kawan moks ajak suruh tengok2 kan komputernya yang rosak. So, moks pon setuju aja tanpa banyak soal.

Sesampainya moks dirumah. Moks ternampaklah Abang iparnya yang sangattt cute. Chubby Daddy type.. siap kumis goatee yang nipis. Kulit putih melepak. Rambut ala2 beruban sikit. Muka senyum meleret. Dia memakai baju melayu dan kain pelikat. Isskk rasa macam nak terkam dan peluk je on the spot.

Lagi cair, daddy ni pulak ala2 manja.. ala2 childish. Very approachable and friendly. Entah camana, there is a chemistry. Abang Ipar dia ni plak tetiba jadi restless, asyik2 nak lepak ngan kita orang je. Dah ler tu.. asyik dok keluar-masuk bilik kawan moks...

"Nanti lepas you tengok komputer tu.. meh tengok komputer I pulak.. ada kat dalam bilik I"
"Err... bolehhh" (tapi.. apa motif daddy tu nak ajak masuk bilik dia.. angkat laptop tu datang sini tak leh ke ?)
"Laptop I ni banyak problem.. I nak pasang banyak barang"

Start dari situ, Daddy ni dah mula kasi hint. Ada beberapa pekara yang daddy ni kasi 'clue' yang amat mencurigakan. Antara hint yang dapat moks tangkap semasa perbualan kami adalah:-
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"Semenjak i pencen ni.. I ada banyak masa." (Dlm erti kata lain.. I'm always free and available)

"Kalau u free datang la lagi ke rumah.. kita leh main-main komputer" (dlm erti kata lain... nanti bila wife I pegi kerja, bole la kita main-main bersama) p/s: statement ini diulang beberapa kali sepanjang perbualan.

"Semenjak dua menjak ni, I banyak buka puasa kat hotel.. dua malam lepas kat Sheraton, lepas tu kat Istana then semalam kat Equitorial" (dlm erti kata lain... kalu you nak ajak I tido hotel 5 star pon bole juga.. i mampu spedoo you !)
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Moks pon cuba la korek skit info dengan kawan moks tu pasal abg ipar dia. Banyak maklumat berguna yang moks dapat...
1. Abang ipar dia tu kawin lambat.. umur 30-an baru kawin. Skrg umur 50-an anak baru 2.. kecik2 skolah lagi. (maybe PLU ni)
2. Bini dia plak chub.. (ader chance chub4chub ni)
3. Kawan moks cakap, dia kasi layanan special hanya untuk chub2 aje.. kalu kawan dia yg slim datang.. abg ipar dia buat tak layan (confirmmmm!!)

So malam besok, moks dapat invitation lagi berbuka puasa ngan diaorang. Tengok la camana daddy tu kasi respon lagi. Kalu berjaya.. tambah la lagi sorang sugar daddy moks.. hehehhehe.

Thursday, November 20, 2003

eid

budak gemuk pasang pelita,
terbakar tetek kena tutup dengan pinggan,
maaf zahir batin saya pinta,
selamat hari raya saya ucapkan.

wishing y'all happy eid mubarak.

Thursday, October 30, 2003

...of birthdays, bears & book of laws

Happy belated birthday to me. Damn! I'm into the Big Three Oh. Age ain't nothing but a number, Aaliyah said. But she's already gone!! She will always be 22!! Then again, I have to take her words for it, I like her THAT much. Oh yeah, happy belated birthday BaronCaffeine.

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Aku balik kampung minggu lepas pesal ada kenduri. Jumpa kawan chatter lama jap. Seorang manusia menyerupai beruang yg baru shaved, agak buncit tapi dada dia lagi besar, pinggang ala2 muat dipeluk, rambut pendek lurus sikat tepi, gigi putih kecik2, bulu roma tangan agak halus dalam 17-21 helai seinci persegi, punggung bulat, bau wangi melebihi bau lemak, cakap banyak. Just the way I like them. ARGHH!! Cutenya!!

Dia bawak jln2 kat bandar, pesal aku tak reti sgt jln2 ni. Lepak kat Singgah Selalu. Happening gak. Borak2 je dekat 2jam sambil perati org dan sekali-sekala main teka-teki 'Sapa PLU kat sini? Mamat rock dgn mamat pakai baju ketat tu couple ke? Wragghhhkahkahkah!!'. Dia dah ada boyfren. Ahh! The good ones are always taken, there are only leftovers. Hahahah, mesti aku kena laserz kalau ada org yg berkenaan baca statement tadi tu. Dia percayakan long distance relationship. Dia ingatkan aku kat Elaine dalam citer Ally McBeal, very der optimist. Dia buat aku enjoy makan banana split sejuk2 tgh malam kat restoran baru tu. Dia suka Ning Baizura. Dia suka Antara Mungkin Dan Curiga. Aku bagi dia dengar Hazami Keabadian Cinta pun dia suka gak. Tapi masa dah cukup, aku taknak balik lagi tapi ala2 terpaksa.

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Jumpa kawan lama gak minggu ni. Chub, smooth, misai dan goatee, suka diamond. Dia dah ada boyfren. Slim. Bagusle. Dia kata boyfren dia caring, sebab selalu telepon dan sms tanya khabar. Dan dia rasa boyfren dia serious nak rapat lepas boyfren dia selalu telepon dan tanya khabar masa dia demam 3 hari. Aku terpikir something yg dia cakap. Kalau dia tak demam dan boyfren dia tak telepon adake maknanya boyfren dia tak serius? So, dia cuma perasan boyfren dia serious pesal dia sakit, so kalau dia tak sakit dia tak perasan ke boyfren dia nak serious? So, pesal boyfren dia je yang tau dia sakit then adake maknanya orang yg tak tau dia sakit pesal diaorg tak telepon tu tak amik berat?

Sekali lagi, norma2 hidup yg tetiba jadik undang-undang ekk? Ala2 kalau dapat sms kena jawap cepat2, kalau tak orang marah... hehehe

Tuesday, October 21, 2003

Pertemuan yang tak diduga...

Tadi masa moks tengah lepak2 kat opis. Ada orang ketuk pintu. Moks pon pandang la kearah pintu. Tetiba je jantung moks berdebar. Di muka pintu tu, terpancul susuk tubuh seorang chub. Tergamam sekejap... cutenyerrrr dierrrrrr. Very chub... entah chub mana pulak sesat kat opis moks ari ni. Dia muda lagi.. dalam lingkungan 25 keatas. Tinggi dalam 172cm berat dalam 120kg. Waist size dalam 44 - 48. Perghhh... dunia rasa macam berhenti kejap... macam ada chemistry.. terasa ada kejutan elektrik.

"Yer.. nak apa ?" .. dengan stail machonyer bertanya (tak boleh pechah lobang.. kena la gaya abang-abang). "Err.. saya dari Syarikat XYZ, ada kawan saya kata encik nak order quotation dari syarikat kami.

Dia pun menghulur business cardnya. Mata kami saling memandang... tak berkelip lansung. Moks mempersilakannya duduk dan pada masa yang sama, moks jeling-jeling la kat celah kangkangnya tu.. wow.. boleh tahan jugak ni. Perutnya memboyot ke depan. Rasanya dia perasan moks dok asyik pandang kearah perut, dia cuba membetulkan bajunya yang sememangnya ketat di bahagian pinggang tu. Kami pun memulakan perbualan dan moks mula perasan, matanya tak berganjak memandang tajam kearah moks. Business trick ni kot.. nak tengok response pelanggan.

"Macam ni. Saya nak order ... bla bla bla" Dekat 15 minit moks membebel. Herannya.. dia tak tulis pon apa moks nak.. Macam terkaku. Eye contact tak pernah putus. Hmm... ada respon agaknya.

"Ehh... awak tulis tak apa saya nak tadi...?"
"Tak apa.. saya boleh ingat." Barulah tangannya tergopoh-gapah nak mencari pen dan kertas.
"Err.. apa yang encik nak order tadi ?"

Moks pon ulang sekali lagi apa yang moks nak. Dia mula menulis dengan khuyuk. Kebetulan pulak, digital cam moks ada atas meja time tu. Apa lagi.. sambil rancak berbual. Tangan moks dok sebok memicit picu digi cam. Boleh la buat modal time-time kemaruk nanti.

Di tengah-tengah perbualan. Tiba.. tiba dia mengacukan soalan yang tak diduga.
"Maaf ya.. muka Encik ni memang nampak familar".. (Aiseh... ini macam ayat ayat budak all boys SBP nie)
"awak pun macam familiar.. tapi kat mana pernah jumpa ye"
"Rasa macam pernah nampak... encik ni grad dari UTM ke ?" (dlm hati moks... eleh kot kot dah ter-chat kat chennel #mychubs dan siap tukar-tukar face-pic lagie.. bole buat-buat tak kenal)
"Tak la... saya bukan dari sana"
"Tapi betul la.. muka encik ni very familar, sejak dari saya masuk tadi saya cuba nak ingat kat mana kita pernah jumpa."
"Hehhehe.. saya pun rasa kita pernah jumpa. Kalau nak berkenalan dengan lebih dekat pun tak apa." (hints .. hints)
"Encik ada business card tak .. atau contact number ke.. nanti kalau saya free boleh contact encik."
"Ehh.. tak de la.. card saya dah habis" moks sengaja tak kasi business card moks.. sebaliknya, moks capai kertas dan tulis my personal contacts. Moks dah paham.. ni musti nak ngayat ni.

"Ok lah, kalau encik moks perlukan apa-apa, jangan segan-segan nak contact saya..."
"Okay.. no problem"
"Kalau ada masa nanti.. saya nak belanja makan dinner ke.. bole kan?".. wahhh nak ajak dinner date ghietuu..
'Boleehhhhhhhhhh" kalu orang nak belanja moks.. mesti nak punyerr.. apatahlagi kalau chub.

Sambil salam tu.. moks genggam kuat-kuat tangannya. Nak kasi hint sket lagie.
Nanti weekend ni ingat nak call dia balik.. nak ajak keluar sambil mengenali dengan lebih dekat, pertemuan kat opis ni terlampau formal... tapi moks agak dia akan call moks dulu.. hehehhe.. it's just a gut feeling.

Hik hik hik.. seronok gaks ada encounter camni. Anyway utk pembaca sumer.. kena la pandai "read between the lines". Encounter bole terjadi dimana-mana sahaja.. pada waktu yang kita sendiri tak terduga.

Happy Deepavali !!!

P/S:(susulan dihari besoknya)
Dia call gak moks ari ni.. yahoooo.

Pastu siap kasi e-mail lagi:
> Maaf kerana tak dapat jumpa En. Moks (bukan nama sebenar ya) hari ini. Sebab petang ni
> saya ada meeting penting. Besok pula nak pergi out-station, jadi kemungkinan besar
> saya tak ada selama beberapa minggu. En. Moks masih bujang ke ? Kalau bujang, boleh
> ke jumpa malam ni ? Dinner ke ? Ada beberapa pekara penting yang saya nak finalize
> sebelum saya nak submit proposal ni.
> Call saya nanti untuk confirm.

Friday, October 10, 2003

MyChub Latest Projects...

Hi Guys, kali ni moks tak der nak citer pasal encounter. Tapi nak citer pasal projek-projek terbaru kat mychub website. Kalu y'all nak tau, ada banyak inovasi yang sedang berjalan dibelakang tabir website mychub ni. (iskk .. jangan berfikiran kotor sedara2 sekalian). Apa yang moks maksudkan ialah internet services.

Yang paling baru ialah linking Internet Radio dengan Gaydar UK. So skrg y'all bole lah mendengar lagu berunsur PLU sesambil melawat website mychub atau meng-chat di chatroom MyChubs. Hasil kreatif Jaze_Ipoh.

Disamping itu, kami juga sedang berkerja keras untuk membina RSS newsfeed (amende tuh.. ?? ) Well, RSS nie macam berita terbaru ala2 website berita harian / the star tapi mengenai berita Chub & Chaser dan boleh diletakkan di laman web peribadi sedara2 sekalian - ianya diupdate secara otomatis. Diusahakan oleh GemuKChub

Selain itu, kami juga sedang dalam bergiat dalam pembinaan servis baru iaitu MyResipi - satu ruangan untuk berkongsi maklumat mengenai pemakanan yang sihat dan pada waktu yang sama boleh membina perut .. hehehe. Diusahakan oleh Mashimaro

Pada masa yang sama kami juga sedang membina skrip IRC untuk OP di channel MyChubs. Add-on terbaru skrip MyChub2003 bole didownload dari website. Hasil usaha Nightshiver.

Akhir sekali, terdapat beberapa projek Multimedia Flash yang sedang berjalan untuk Intro website dan juga MyCard Greetings dibawah pengawasan Ali-SetanKL.

So, kalau y'all berminat nak menyumbang idea/hasil kerja kreatif dalam bidang2 yang disebutkan tadi... sila lah e-mail kepada : mychub@time.net.my

"Bersama menyumbang untuk komuniti Chub & Chaser"

Peace Broder !!!!

Wednesday, October 08, 2003

Salam Sayang...

Hi rakan-rakan dan adik-adik semua! mashimaro kembali lagi dalam rancangan…Joe Jambullllll!!! oppss…Ben jgn marah yerk…gurau jerk!ahaks.
Hi Semua…Buat pertama-tama kalinya saya diberi peluang utk menulis didalam ruangan Blogger Mychub ini. Terasa bosan pulak asyik berchatting jerk,nak jugak curahkan citer kat Blogger ni…ghituee…

Mungkin ada yg dah tahu kan yg saya masuk hospital aritu sebab buat pembedahan mata.Anyway saya dah semakin beransur pulih. Takder apa sangat pengalaman selama 2 minggu lebih kat wad cuma meluat jerk dgn gelagat beberapa orang Nurse yg agak 'getikz’ dan 'gedik’ ditahap maksima!Doktor2 semua ok dan friendly.

Terima kasihlah kepada teman-teman yg sudi dtg melawat saya kat hospital aritu Nanti kalau korang ‘termasuk’ hospital aku pi melawat pulak yerk…hehehe. Especially to my bf yg tersayang sbb really take care of me, love u kebabz! ahaks.

Hari ni saya nak ler citer sikit tentang hal ehwal memaki hamun orang! Adalah sekali tu gambar saya telah terpampang di front page website Mychub (ala2 jadik cover ghitue..). Semua ni hasil usaha kreatif GemukChub!hahaha.
Lepas pic tu kluar, adalah sorang dua umat ni yg ntah ler apsal tak puas hati dgn saya tetiba jerk send msg dan sms dlm website Mychub dan memaki hamun saya dgn kata2 yg agak kesat. Well,kalau tak puas hati dgn org toksah ler selindung2…ni tidak,dah ler letak nama palsu pastu dok maki2 saya pulak! Getikz sangat perbuatan tu! kalau berani tampilkan lah diri yg sebenar! Sesedap rasa jerk nak ngata org!Dasar penakut, ngata belakang jer buat per!!!

Oklah saya bukan marah pon, okjerk..no hal ler!nak pesan sikit kat org yg maki2 saya tu, pls ler cermin muka tu sikit sebelum nak ngata org! Sesungguhnya kita benci seseorang itu, tak perlulah memberitahu semua orang. Lets keep it to ourselves, tak payah membuka keaiban orang lain lah. Kalau dah rasa diri tu ‘gila’, pls jgn nak libatkan org lain! Dasar getikz & gedikz yg spastik!!! Kata pepatah orang putih, "All chubs are grey in the dark!", what goes around comes around....
Hmm..sorry yerk semua..ter’over’ emosi pulak, geram siott!!
Ok, tu saja utk kali ini, sampai ketemu di lain cerita. Bubyeee..
Vote for Nana!!!…………..hehe

Tuesday, October 07, 2003

AN ENCOUNTER!

Hi! Apa khabar semua? Harap semua baik. Well i chatted with this guy on gay.com/chat. He is pretty nice and from KL. We have been chatting and also SMS each other and sekali-sekali call. Well from his photo, you will not guess his real self.

I went to KL over the weekend and took the opportunity to meet him. We made appointment to meet Saturday. But last minute he was working as he had a dateline to meet for his work. So, I told him not to worry. He called me around 8 at night. He asked to meet for dinner. He even came to my hotel to meet me. Wow, I was shocked to see him as I entered his car! His picture showed me that he was not so big. But he was. My taste! Anyway, I act cool.

We had good dinner and long chat! He sent me back at about 11 or so. I understand kepenatan! I would say he is 1.7m, and weigh 120 kg. He asked me to call him again and hopefully things will be better when I go to KL the next time. Looking forward to that! And anotehr meeting!

Wednesday, September 03, 2003

The Handphone...

It took me the longest time to write to this blogger nowadays. Not because I ran out of encounters but due to lack of time on my hands. Well.. this little incident I must share with all you dearest readers. It occured when was I was strolling along the TESCO shopping complex the other day. It was squirming with people. Especially during this Merdeka holiday weekend. There were lots of chubbies too. Small chubbies.. BIG Chubbies.. Cute Chubbies... all came "out of their shell" to welcome this festive occasion. So there I was, sitting inside at a corner of the KFC Restaurant. Looking at people passing by and scooping my 3rd helping scoop of Sara Lee's Vanilla Ice-Cream. When a cute chubby guy with goatee and moustache caught my eye. He was 5'8" in height, 112kg at least and jaw dropping smile that you couldn't resist. He was wearing dark polo shirt and a white trouses which shaped his butt nicely. The tight shirt wraps around his body jingles at the belly as he walks towards me.

"Excuse me... Could I ask you a favour" he asked...
"Sure... how can I help" I replied with a little bit of shock.
"Well it seems that I had lost my handphone.. do you have a handphone so that you could call mine ?"
Defiantly, I took my handphone from my pocket.. "Sooo.. what's ur number please.. "
"It's 012-XXX XXXX ... give it a few minutes to ring."... So I pressed the number on to my phone and waited.
It gave a couple of rings but nobody answered. After it seems a minute or two he said thank you and went his way.
I did not gave it a thought afterwards but continued to eat my ice-cream.

Later that night, a familiar number flashed on my handphone.
"Helloo..."
"Hi... Remember me the guys at TESCO ?"
"Oh yes.. I still do" .. feeling the nervousness in his voice.
"I just wanna thank you for the call.. I managed to find my handphone at last.. I missplaced it in my car actually"
"Oh issit ? I glad that you found it"
"Err... do you mind if we go out sometime tomorrow ?.. err.. as a token of gratitude."
"Okay.. but it's your treat.. so where do you want to meet ?"
"How about TESCO... same time and same place ?
"Okay.. see you there then.. bye"
"Byee.."

Duhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Did a cute chubby guy just ask me out ? I never thought that the handphone missing was a trick. But i admit it works. Anyway... wish me luck on this date. Who knows.. we might be sharing Ice-Cream from the same cup. To you guys out there.... there is life out there.. there is hope out there... u just need to be a part of it.

Happy Merdeka Fun


GemuKChub

Friday, August 08, 2003

My 2 cent

Interesting comments. At least I knew there are people who read it. Me and friends had a heated argument about being gay about 7-8 years ago, about whether it's 'nature vs nurture'. It came out in TIME magazine if I'm not mistaken, some gay professor from Harvard found some 'differences between hetero and homo brains'. But, I pick nurture. The idea of blaming my genes somehow does not appeal to me, it sort of give me the idea that I do not have control over my choices. Probably the same crap about having worker genes and leader genes. That's the summary, the whole argument shit was a lot nastier, which in the end, no one really wins.

I would say I'm turned on by personality, intelligence, success. I would say Marlon Brando as Don Vito Corleone in 'the Godfather' very sexy. The idea of a small man, soft spoken, kinda bubbly, but in total control of the families in New York is very very interesting. Just his personality, not his organised crime activities. The same probably goes with Dr Hannibal Lecter, played by Sir Anthony Hopkins. The idea that he commands so much, able to delve into other people's mind, that's like "WHOOOOOAAAHHH!!!".

What have I been up to these days? Weekly trip to Bleubar, screamed happily when they play Beyonce's Crazy In Love, and cursed when they play 'The Number One Song In Bleubar for the fucking 4th month Shanty and Marcell's Hanya Memuji'. Oh my God! That song was like a year plus ago! Perhaps I kinda take it too seriously, but I do believe DJs have a social responsibility to educate the crowd, probably by playing up-to-date songs, with the intention of keeping abreast with the current hits, and guide the not-so-lucky clubbers who probably don't have fast ISDN/ADSL/T3 internet connections to download all the latest hits. Somehow the songs are better on Fridays than on Saturdays, apparently the crowd on Saturdays have more 'youngsters', and they prefer 'Chiki Girls' to 'Destiny's Child'. Really?

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