My 2 cent

Interesting comments. At least I knew there are people who read it. Me and friends had a heated argument about being gay about 7-8 years ago, about whether it's 'nature vs nurture'. It came out in TIME magazine if I'm not mistaken, some gay professor from Harvard found some 'differences between hetero and homo brains'. But, I pick nurture. The idea of blaming my genes somehow does not appeal to me, it sort of give me the idea that I do not have control over my choices. Probably the same crap about having worker genes and leader genes. That's the summary, the whole argument shit was a lot nastier, which in the end, no one really wins.

I would say I'm turned on by personality, intelligence, success. I would say Marlon Brando as Don Vito Corleone in 'the Godfather' very sexy. The idea of a small man, soft spoken, kinda bubbly, but in total control of the families in New York is very very interesting. Just his personality, not his organised crime activities. The same probably goes with Dr Hannibal Lecter, played by Sir Anthony Hopkins. The idea that he commands so much, able to delve into other people's mind, that's like "WHOOOOOAAAHHH!!!".

What have I been up to these days? Weekly trip to Bleubar, screamed happily when they play Beyonce's Crazy In Love, and cursed when they play 'The Number One Song In Bleubar for the fucking 4th month Shanty and Marcell's Hanya Memuji'. Oh my God! That song was like a year plus ago! Perhaps I kinda take it too seriously, but I do believe DJs have a social responsibility to educate the crowd, probably by playing up-to-date songs, with the intention of keeping abreast with the current hits, and guide the not-so-lucky clubbers who probably don't have fast ISDN/ADSL/T3 internet connections to download all the latest hits. Somehow the songs are better on Fridays than on Saturdays, apparently the crowd on Saturdays have more 'youngsters', and they prefer 'Chiki Girls' to 'Destiny's Child'. Really?